hey
I’M A SOUL LEAD LIFE COACH.
And if you’re asking yourself what the hell a soul -led coach does, let me explain: I help women get in touch with their soul’s true wanting. I believe that we are all incredibly powerful & divine beings, but factors in our lives like generational trauma and the environment we grew up in erode our sense of self and cause us to put others’ needs ahead of our own. As children, we learn to become people-pleasers in order to get the love and attention we need… but as adults, those patterns can cause us to abandon our own needs and create dysfunctional relationships.
hey
I’M A SOUL LEAD LIFE COACH.
And if you’re asking yourself what the hell a soul communication coach does, let me explain: I help women get in touch with their soul’s true wanting. I believe that we are all incredibly powerful & divine beings, but factors in our lives like generational trauma and the environment we grew up in erode our sense of self and cause us to put others’ needs ahead of our own. As children, we learn to become people-pleasers in order to get the love and attention we need… but as adults, those patterns can cause us to abandon our own needs and create dysfunctional relationships.
THE GOOD NEWS IS, WE ALL HAVE THE CAPACITY FOR CHANGE.
My mission is to help women who are struggling to be heard learn to communicate with clarity so they can create the kind of life (and relationships) they desire. Because you deserve to have everything you want. It’s simply a matter of rediscovering the voice that’s already inside you, just waiting to emerge and speak the life you truly desire into existence.
I grew up in a challenging household, as so many of us do, and I learned to cope by overachieving and trying to make everyone else happy (hi, straight-A student and star soccer player here!). This people-pleasing carried over into my adult relationships: I bent over backwards to make my partners happy without regard for my own needs or wants. All those years of self-sacrifice created anger and resentment within me, and I stayed in an unfulfilled marriage for 11 years trying to live up to everyone else’s expectations.
After my divorce, I found myself in a string of failed relationships with people who were emotionally unavailable, once again betraying my own needs in an attempt to please them. Eventually I realized that I was the common denominator in all these relationships and if I wanted to create something different, it was time to take a long, hard look at my own shit. Why was I creating these kinds of relationships? What did I actually want & need to be happy?
So began a long journey of self-discovery and unlearning, and it wasn’t always fun: It was messy and sometimes it was downright painful. But once I confronted my own patterns and learned how to voice my desires, my entire life shifted. I released the thoughts & mindsets that weren’t serving me and stepped into my power as someone who fully shows up for herself and takes responsibility for having her own needs met. After not having a voice for so many years, I now teach women how to find theirs — and I’m so grateful for this incredible journey.
If you’re tired of feeling unheard, sacrificing your desires for others, and feeling like you’ll never have the relationships or life you want, I get it — but I promise you, transformation is possible. When you learn to use the power of your voice to have soul-centered conversations and clearly communicate your wants & needs, a whole new world of possibilities opens up for you. Ready to discover what’s waiting for you on the other side?
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